I want to grope the Meat
Great! Show up at 8:00pm to get your grope on!
These are the rules you must be aware of. Read this list in its entirety.
Rules About Respecting Boundaries
If someone says STOP, YELLOW, RED, SAFEWORD, or shows any sign of protest (like shaking their head NO):
- Stop immediately.
- Say "Thank you" and move on.
- Do not engage in discussion or return to that person. It's over.
- Listen to the Monitors regardless of how wrong you know they are.
Avoid comments about people's Body, Kinks, Look, Outfit, Presentation, etc. People are brave and vulnerable; hearing the wrong offhand comment can destroy their experience and be very hurtful.
Groping Rules for the Meet Locker
Each piece of Meet on the Locker will have a Monitor with them. Listen to the Monitor.
They will be making clear what is or is not allowed with their Meet.
That's it. Work with and Listen to the Monitor. If they ask you to stop, stop. If they ask you to slow down, slow down, if they say you are done, you're done. etc.
If you are having any sort of genital interaction, or fluid exchange with the person in the Locker, we suggest you wear new gloves and protection, but this is between you and the monitor.
Groping Rules for the Meet Rack
- ONLY TOUCH BARE SKIN. Do not touch anything with clothing on it. If you are unsure, do not touch it.
- ANY FORM OF PROTESTATION MEANS STOP IMMEDIATELY AND MOVE ON. This includes STOP, YELLOW, RED, SAFEWORD, shaking a head or anything that looks like "no" or a protestation. No discussion, no objection, no asking why, just move on. (And, just to be crystal clear... don't come back to that person.)
- New - NO BODY FLUID TRANSFER. This means no kissing, no licking, no biting, no oral, no rimming, no anything that potentially transfers body fluids.
- NEW GLOVES FOR NEW GENITALS. You need to be wearing new gloves for each new set of genitals you touch. Get the gloves from a monitor or safety table. There are pails and bags for used gloves
- NO COMMENTS ABOUT PEOPLE'S BODY / KINK / LOOK / OUTFIT / PRESENTATION, etc. People are vulnerable and hearing the wrong offhand comment can destroy their experience and be hurtful.
- NOW IS NOT THE TIME. Now is not the time to ask to meet, or for contact information. Don't pressure the Meet while they are in this headspace.
- CUPS - IF THEY DON'T HAVE A CUP, THEY DON'T WANT YOURS!
- START LIGHT, ramp up. Not everyone wants a firm, heavy touch. Assume people want light touch unless told otherwise.
- KEEP THE EXPERIENCE POSITIVE. This is not a space for degradation or humiliation. Positive comments only. If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all.
- OBEY THE MONITORS. They are the law and must be obeyed without complaint or talkback.
- IF IN DOUBT, DON'T DO IT. People going on the Rack want to be touched. But perhaps not everywhere and perhaps not by everyone. If unsure, err on the side of caution and don't grope it. Don't be "that person".
- THE RULES ARE THE RULES. The rules of the Rack must be obeyed. Even if the bottom is begging you for more. Even if magical sparks of connection are flying. Even if they are only two seconds away from an earth shattering orgasm. You must keep it light and move on. Consider coming off the rack and finishing the scene elsewhere.
- DON'T BE "THAT PERSON"!
Meet Rack Monitors
Obey the Monitors at all times! Period! Monitors are there to ensure safety and provide gloves. Follow their instructions promptly; if they ask you to move on, do so.
Acceptable Objectification
The people on the rack are there to be objectified. Feel free to talk, or not, treat them as a toy to be played with, or a person to meet, etc. Remember this isn't the place for full-on play scenes, massive negotiations, long deep discussions, ass pats that turn into spankings, etc. If you're with the same person for more than a few minutes, give them your card and move on.
New - It is acceptable to visit the same person twice over the course of the Rack, but if you're trying to see the same person more than that, it feels a little stalkeresque. Give them your card and move on.
Future Connections
The Meet Rack is NOT the place to plan future play dates, to negotiate, to have conversations, etc. It's a place for brief objectification and people on the rack are perhaps NOT in the right frame of mind to negotiate as equals. If you wish to connect later with someone, drop your calling card in their cup for follow-up.