I want to grope the Meat

Great! Show up at 8:00pm to get your grope on!

These are the rules you must be aware of. Read this list in its entirety.

Rules About Respecting Boundaries

If someone says STOP, YELLOW, RED, SAFEWORD, or shows any sign of protest (like shaking their head NO):

Avoid comments about people's Body, Kinks, Look, Outfit, Presentation, etc. People are brave and vulnerable; hearing the wrong offhand comment can destroy their experience and be very hurtful.


Groping Rules for the Meet Locker

Each piece of Meet on the Locker will have a Monitor with them. Listen to the Monitor.

They will be making clear what is or is not allowed with their Meet.

That's it. Work with and Listen to the Monitor. If they ask you to stop, stop. If they ask you to slow down, slow down, if they say you are done, you're done. etc.

If you are having any sort of genital interaction, or fluid exchange with the person in the Locker, we suggest you wear new gloves and protection, but this is between you and the monitor.


Groping Rules for the Meet Rack


Meet Rack Monitors

Obey the Monitors at all times! Period! Monitors are there to ensure safety and provide gloves. Follow their instructions promptly; if they ask you to move on, do so.

Acceptable Objectification

The people on the rack are there to be objectified. Feel free to talk, or not, treat them as a toy to be played with, or a person to meet, etc. Remember this isn't the place for full-on play scenes, massive negotiations, long deep discussions, ass pats that turn into spankings, etc. If you're with the same person for more than a few minutes, give them your card and move on.

New - It is acceptable to visit the same person twice over the course of the Rack, but if you're trying to see the same person more than that, it feels a little stalkeresque. Give them your card and move on.

Future Connections

The Meet Rack is NOT the place to plan future play dates, to negotiate, to have conversations, etc. It's a place for brief objectification and people on the rack are perhaps NOT in the right frame of mind to negotiate as equals. If you wish to connect later with someone, drop your calling card in their cup for follow-up.

Read about Speed Meeting for more information.